Son broke down and called bio. He sat there watching TV and half listening to her. Youngest sat in the next chair reading and never talked to her. She said oldest didn't want to talk to hubby. Then oldest got on the phone and said she didn't want to talk to her Dad. Son's exact comment was "What the hell?" Hubby is crushed. I'm not sure how I can help other than be there. I did say I would keep calling weekly and sending a weekly e-mail. At least that way she knows he is keeping the lines of communication open and that he cares even if she doesn't.